One of the things that can push you into greater opportunity is capacity.
There's always just one or two persons between you and your next breakthrough. God uses people, and when you learn how to lean with people, you would maximize Gods purpose for your life. There's beauty in having the right people and persons around you.
When you develop capacity to move with people, you would maximize what God wants them and you to do in there life. Learn to think about winning with people.
Boundaries aren't barriers to love, they are bridge to develop capacity. Being good is not the strength for a healthy relationship. Most time people get tired of relationship because they don't know how to create or keep the right boundaries. Proverb 25 vs 28.
Can you imagine a house without doors and windows can you rent it? No
It poses insecurities. Unfortunately it tends to be how some persons life is;
Boundaries are personal property lines, the define what your responsible for and responsible to. Setting boundaries is not pushing people away, its making way or space for the right values and people or persons.
Why boundaries matters for single.
They protect your heart from unnecessary damage.
They position you for healthy love.
They help you attract right relationship.
They prevent resentment, by allowing to say yes to love without been judged.
it prepares you for marriage. You must have and build your personal boundaries before meeting someone. Those boundaries you have set are what keeps or scatter the relationship. Take for instance a guy who interested in a lady just for sex, meets one whose not ready to sleep with any man till marriage, he would go, since his intentions are not pure.
Laws of Boundaries entails:
Laws of Responsibility: you are responsible for your self and others and not to them.
The law of Power: you have the power to control yourself now as a single person. You have the power to choose what comes and what stays in your life. Pls use it wisely.
The law of exposure: your boundaries must be made visible Matt 5vs37. when it comes to Christian relationship, they should be questions to be asked and answered. Unspoken expectations brings disappointment. You have every right to explore in a good way. Know things that can help you in the future.
Boundaries of evaluation might create discomfort Heb 12vs11. You have the right to walk out of the relationship if you notice your not compatible.
Law of productivity: you have every right to add value to yourself as a single. your have right to refuse certain things around you, that does not work with your growth and maturity.
Note: Healthy boundaries are set before crisis come Dan 1vs8, allow the holy spirit to guide you.
