Release your "Handbrake"
I once drove my own car. When the car is about to run, the gas I press or I raise but the car still does not move. You know why the car is not running? Because the brake has not handed me down or my child's language "the brakes have not been removed."
so does life, we have difficulty moving, running or spurring speed when the "hand brake" in us has not been released. This hand brake will keep us going, hamper our success and keep us from continuing to grow. this hand brake will make us feel has worked hard but does not produce any movement, or if move will be very slow and damage certain parts.
Take off your "handbrake" immediately. What are "hand brakes"? First, blame others. research shows that people who are used to blaming others have difficulty developing. When something goes wrong or something unexpected, this person is not busy looking for a solution or looking for alternatives but instead is busy looking for a "scapegoat."
busy looking for a scapegoat made him only have a little time to take lessons. Blaming others may create a sense of relief and feeling great but it is precisely that dangerous "brake hand" that keeps a person on the spot. often blaming others will make your life worse in the future.
Second, limiting beliefs. Many people who have faith can not, can not, can not afford this, can not afford it yet have not tried. or if it has been tried, it has only been several times failed or unsuccessful but has punished himself can not. Though it may be the next trial he succeeded.
Naturally limiting beliefs sometimes appear like grass on the sidelines of rice plants. we never intend to plant grass but still grow. I've experienced it. The elixir is often introspect and associate with people who are genuine in giving input and suggestion as well as dare to give a sharp criticism.
Third, comfort is wearing. the one we seek in life is comfort. However, too late in comfort, can be a barrier to progress and grow. Comfort that melenakan it becomes a dangerous "hand brake". enjoy the comfort you have by continuously improving the comfort level.
When you feel comfortable in a few moments, immediately present a new challenge to realize a higher comfort or increase the variety of comfort. do not let the muscles in you loose because they are rarely used to do much good.
If you want your life to go on, immediately release your "handbrake". What is the "hand brake" within you?
Salam SuksesMulia
