Many people have own definition of Love. I intend to write two short descriptions or definitions of love that written by Wagoner in his book the meaning of love. Firstly, Love is finding oneself in another and secondly Love as power. It means the other has power over me because I need him or her. Without the recognition of the other I have no sense of myself.
I Quoted some Scholars' quotations
...Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds or bends with the remover to remove. O no! it is an ever-fixed mark, that looks on tempests and is never shaken.-William Shakespeare
Love lures life on. -Thomas Hardy
In that book, there are many philosophers giving the ideas of love.