if you are Struggling to budget and manage finances, don't doubt a second you are not alone, even you are just as common as you ould!
maybe one simple reason is, such problems scale from one to another person, but never disappear.
Though it's a extremely common problem, talking honestly and openly about it isn't.
Why do we hide our financial problems?
I personally have couple of reasons, especially I have realized my reasons vary from one person to another. for example I have different reasons not talking about such topic with my friend, comparing to my mother.
Tammy Lally encourages us to break free of "money shame" and shows us how to stop equating our bank accounts with our self-worth. watch her talk:
https://go.ted.com/Ctbs