I would like to share a story of a friend. She is always complaining about her family member infront of us, but she is only able to keep silent in the house.
Please imagine that when you are watching a television program, but suddenly someone changes the channel. The reason is she wants to watch her drama. You are better to surf internet to watch your favourite movie than arguing with her.
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After finish watching a television program, when you want to continue watching the next program, suddenly someone has turned off the television with the reason that no good program for her at that time, so let the television rest for few hours, otherwise it may broken down easily. Can you accept it?
If you need to see the subtitles while watching television, so sorry to say that you are only can see half of them since the screen size of television has been enlarge for the reason that can watch it clearly if compare to normal screen size.
When you have just came back from outside, sure you will feel hot and plan to rest for a while under the fan. While you are enjoying the windy fan, suddenly someone turns it off with the reason that the fan has been on since few hours ago, should turn it off, otherwise it may broke down very fast. How do you feel?
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Early in the morning, while you are still dreaming under the blanket, someone entering your bed room and turns off the Air-conditioner. You are forced to lock the door while sleeping so that nobody can enter your bedroom, but once u went out to the toilet and plan to continue your sleeping, you found that someone already entered your bed room and switched off the Airconditioner for you with the reason that she always on the air conditioner for 3 hours then turn it off to avoid it brokes down faster. Just comfort yourself that it is for environmental friendly. Is it a good explanation for you?
When entering the toilet you are not allowed to turn on the light during day time to save power supply. The tissue is not provided in the toilet for the reason that you are not allowed to throw the tissue into the toilet bowl because the tissue will cause toilet clog.
When the toilet flush is not functioning, it is not allowed to replace a new one although you are affordable to do it with the reason of save money.
When you are doing something in your own room and drew the curtains to allow the daylight streamed into the room, but suddenly got someone shut the curtains in your room and the room directly becomes dull, but you are not allowed to turn on the light. How do you feel?
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There are too many things that is not under our control. To avoid disharmony in the house, we should accept each other's merits and faults since we are unable to choose who is our family members. Sometimes, we have to turn a blind eye and keep silent to tolerate with family members because the less trouble the better when staying together.
Family members who staying under the same roof should avoid trouble whenever is possible. If we cannot tolerate with each other when staying together, it is very hard to facing each other everyday. Once we can't not stand with it, it may cause family disputes like quarreling and fighting.
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Keep tolerate!
Stay harmony & peacefully!
@sealion2020