Why Some People Keep Making The Same Mistakes

If you do not know why something happened, then you may not even know how to prevent it from happening again, and you may not be able to solve the problem. Some people often say that mistakes are important part of life. Well, to an extent, this may be true, because they can teach valuable lessons, and help one to grow. However, what is bad is not that you made mistake, but that you keep repeating the same mistake over and again without learning anything from it. A lot of people are stuck in the same cycle for years simply because they fail to learn from their experiences. Here, was shall take a look at why some people keep making the same mistake again and again, so you will know how to avoid it.

There was this guy I knew back then, who would always be short of money before the end of the month. Each time, he would blame his salary, or the economy, or the responsibilities that he have. However, he never truly took time to examine and observe that he spends impulsively on the things that he did not need, and that was part of what eats deep into his pocket. Months after month, the same cycle kept repeating until he finally got to tell himself the truth that he was the source of his own financial problems. It was then that he reviewed his spendings and made a budget. For the first time, he did not run out of money before the end of the month. He realised that his problem was not even lack of money, but misappropriation of money.

One reasons that cause people to repeat the same mistake over and again is lack of self-awareness. They never take out time to reflect on the decisions they make, on their habits, on their actions, and even on their choices. When they experience problems or when they make mistakes, they will be too quick to blame other people, or even on the situation itself, without taking time to reflect about their own role in the whole thing. This will make them to miss important lessons that they would have learnt, thereby having the tendency to repeat the same mistake again and again. If someone cannot learn from what has happened, then it might keep happening again.

Another reason why some people keep making the same mistake is pride. Pride is one thing that makes it difficult for someone to admit when they are wrong. Instead of taking corrections when they make mistakes, they will either become defensive to justify themselves for their actions, or they trade blames. Or they may even give excuses when things do not work out well, instead of taking corrections. What they fail to understand is that if they fail to acknowledge a mistake and take responsibilities for it, they may not learn from it. Growth starts when someone is humble enough to recognise their weaknesses, and then take responsibilities for their actions.

The third reason why some people keep making the same mistake is fear of change. There are times when people would know exactly where they are getting it wrong, but the fear of uncertainty may make them not to change it. Change often requires discipline, commitment, efforts, and risks to be taken. It may also mean that you will change routines, improve your attitude, or make some very daring decisions. Because of the fact that these changes can be uncomfortable, some people may choose to continue with what they are familiar with even when it is already a disadvantage to them. This is what happens when you allow fear to make you not to take steps.

Why some people repeat the same mistake is that they tend to focus on what is happening and not on why it is happening. That is, focusing on the symptoms and not on the root cause. For example, a student who keeps failing but keeps blaming the difficult questions, or the exam format, while they did not take note of their poor study habits. Or maybe someone who is struggling financially may be blaming the economy or even the salary, but they may not have taken time to look at the way they spend money and their budget. Until you have addressed the root cause of a problem, the problem may return again.

The last reason that we will look at here why some people make the same mistake is that that they ignore advice and corrections. By listening to wise counsel, it will make you to see what the problem is, and make you to see the blind spot that you may not have taken notice of. But the people who reject feedbacks have the tendency of repeating the same mistakes again. You have to learn to be teachable to be able to grow.

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