I know everyone wants to feel loved , everyone wants people to cherish them and adore them , they want people to say great things about them , they want others to find them impressive and so much more.
While trying to get that , we then begin to have the desire to want to please people so that they will keep loving us the way we want..
Nothing wrong in wanting people to love you and respect you , but you need to also understand the reality that you cannot always please everyone no matter how much you try , and guess what? Even after trying to please them , that do not mean they might still not hurt you or say something negative about you or act negatively towards you..
Alot of people have hurt themselves in the process of trying to please other people in the society , some have engaged in uninterested activities just because they want to please others and at the end of the day they still do not get the maximum satisfaction which they are seeking from others..
If you want to have a peaceful life , just live a good life , be good to people around you , stop trying too hard to please people , just ensure you are a good person , you do not need to keep stressing yourself just to please others...if they really care about you they will care about you and respect your weaknesses and strengths..
