Good manners or good behavior are the best quality of a person's personality. It is not just a social etiquette but it is an art that forms the basis of human relationship.Good manners help make any complex relationship easy. Polite words, smiles and showing respect for others create a place of mutual trust. When we speak nicely to someone, the other person starts thinking of us and for a make a good relationship with us.
Your manners bear the identity of your culture, family background, education and mentality. How elegant a person is can be understood by his manners and behavior. A proverb says, "Manners are the true identity of a person." Not clothes or external beauty, good manners make a person acceptable and respected by everyone. Good behavior is not only beneficial for others, it also has a positive effect on one's own mind. If you maintain patience and humility without getting angry, you can avoid many unwanted troubles. It ensures mental peace and creates a kind of environment of peace in the surrounding.
Sometimes we see some people who argue with rikshaw driver only for few money like 5 taka. These persons are giving tips in restaurant 100 taka. But a rikshaw driver works harder than a waiter. But we hardly give tips to a rikshaw driver. Instead of giving tips a few people even physically assualt or use bad language for demanding few more fare.
There is no alternative to good behavior to be successful in professional or social life. No matter how skilled you are, if your behavior is bad, people will stay away from you. On the other hand, people with good behavior easily get cooperation from others. Good behavior is also an essential condition for acquiring leadership qualities. Good behavior creates a kind of harmony in the society by eliminating hatred, jealousy and animosity. It awakens empathy and respect for each other among people, which helps in building a healthy and beautiful society.
Good manner is a power that can win people’s heart without any cost. It is the easiest way to win a place in people's hearts. If we started to practice good manners in our daily lives from home to workplace with all stages people we meet the world will become a much more beautiful and enjoyable place to live.
