I love my hubby but what keeps things fresh and positive in my household is listening. Have you ever really sat and looked into the eyes of your spouse and just listened to them? We all have things to say and the quietest people in the room are usually full of so much knowledge and vigor. Sometimes, we just don't stop for a minute and really listen.
Drop the phone, turn the volume off the t.v. , look directly at the person you love the most and listen. After 12 years, I am hearing the most beautiful things come out of my husbands' mouth. How much he loves me, his dreams and aspirations.
Everyday I wake up and ask him "Is there anything I can do for you today?" He usually says "just the regular stuff" and because I listen to him, I know what he is asking for.
I love finding new ways to create positive change in my marriage and in my other relationships. It works to listen intently to your kids too. Give them a voice and let them be heard.
It makes the day go so much smoother. Have a great marriage...and a great life!
