WHAT CAN YOU DO FOR LOVE?
Often times when I hear the word Love, what comes to my mind are the sacrifices attached to it. Well indeed we can claim that we love someone verbally but then love is beyond words, you cannot just say you love someone without proof, the things we do for love shows if truly we love that someone we claim to love.
Beauty is vital for love, but beauty is not the sole aim of loving someone and it shouldn't necessarily be the reason for love, so it means for love we can ignore the normal beauty we see because it is certain that it will fade away, if we love because of beauty, a time comes when the beauty will be no more, what then can we say? It means our love from the onset was not real.
For love, I can deny myself pleasure for the comfort of my partner, love is not how we treat ourselves, but how we take care of those we claim to love. Seeing the people we love comfortable and not lacking anything in any way gives you a kind of joy that surpasses any other.
For love, I can adjust my behavior and accommodates what brings joy to the person I love, anything that the person I love finds unpleasant, I am able to stop it just for who I love, it's crazy sometimes but then we claim to love, there no better way to show it than these.
I can give my time for the person I love, in most cases the person who we claim to love would want our undivided attention wherever they are talking to us, as little as attention can be, itnis a very vital ingredient that proves we love someone. Giving the people we love a listening ear goes a long way.
Forgiveness is the backbone of love, It is hard in the human nature to forgive easily and totally forget, but for the one I love I can do that ignoring the kind of discomfort I can encounter, and in situations where I find it difficult to let go , perhaps because it is too big to simply discard, I will tell you how I feel and what should be done, so we can work through it together. With team work, we can settle any issue we face in our relationship, understanding one another will help to resolve some issues that can amount to hectic problems.
What I can do for love depends on whether the person is worth it or not, most times we do things for people we love not having full assurance if they will do the same for us when they are caught up in the same situation, but for love, just for love we do these things with ease. Reciprocating feelings in relationship is the best feeling ever, when you show love to someone and the person shows you the same, in a situation in which the person does not do so, we still tend to stay, just because of love.
