Just because, you don't understand life, life is so hard because you designed it to be your way, you have a bias for happiness like my wife, such a job, such a friend, so be happy, You have given happiness some terms and conditions, which are never going to come your way, so, first of all erase the conditions, expectations, prejudices and focus on what is the purpose of your life among 70000000000000 people, where are you standing,
Well, in simple words, I would like to answer your question, you take apple eat it, do it again and again, you will find that it has lost its taste and usefulness, why excess of everything is bad, it is a simple law , just share with others, you are on quora because your basic needs are met and now you have free time with immense powerful brain, living a life of fantasy of things that will never happen and no existential No value but repeating it again and again you are hurting yourself,
You are a human being and in the broadest sense you are God if you realize that because you have a conscience that no other creature has, morality does not teach any human being, it is inherent, good and bad in everyone. It is our ignorance that how many times we ignore this voice, eventually we stop feeling it, we all human beings have to realize that every being is the same, i.e. destroy energy and energy cannot be changed and can only be transformed….
If you want to be happy then develop a vision of your life and relate it to the need of the society and work for what you are doing, we are born to connect with the society, don't want to run away from it and If you want to be the victim you are, you have to realize that you are separate from society and that you are contributing something to it. Often we fear the uncertainty for the future and some even fear that after death they are investing in temples and dedicating candles and shawls to secure a place in heaven.
The reason behind insurance, banking and capitalism is uncertainty.
Today social media is an expression of selfishness, for example how many likes on photos, people are dying because of selfies, how many comments,
This personal model is basic for comparison and jealousy, we are considering our very important but please know one simple thing my friend no one is important to you except you take it lightly, don't set conditions for happiness Everyone wants the world in themselves the way it's not supposed to be, why don't we become what the world needs, why don't we start loving each and every one on this planet selflessly,
If you are a true devotee of God and want it to live happily then work hard on your vision and if it does not come in your way then change the path.
Conflict is the expression of the ego, it is always like to struggle and survive, that is why we are not accepting the reality and struggle with it which causes pain, be happy to help each other, see ,
Isn't it strange, that we don't have any trouble, come first with some unknown person, we won't do any harm but our friend only hurts us. It is not normal, even if it is with most of the people, because it is not universal for all, if all are patient, it does not mean that things are normal,
Please be happy for others and also for yourself. 80 years of life and please join in and experience all the emotions and life forms.
