I'd love to do that. I've floated the idea of homemade gifts only but it was rejected.

This year I asked to move the Chrissy Eve dinner to lunch instead. My grandson is only two months old and it is so much easier for the parents this way. In the group chat they were fine, but I heard my sister through a hissy fit over it. Some people don't like to mess with tradition. Personally I could not give two hoots!