People hardly reveal all of their secrets or hidden emotions to everybody unless they find someone worthy of their trust. Secrets and hidden emotions both are pretty private things, what if believing in someone you express a depth emotions of yours and later on you heard, the tale of your life you shared with someone, It has been revealed. How do you feel then? Naturally, you abominate the soul and regret yourself like saying I wish I could think twice before telling a private emotion of mine.
Basically when you are unhappy because of happening a pathetic incident in your life, there you find no way in front of your eyes, literally no way. During the time you saw someone with whom you had a common connection, despite not knowing the soul deeply you might express the pathetic story of your life which should not be told. Although you know that sharing a private thing with someone who is not fond of your there always have a truth issue, having not proper sense at that time you made that mistake. You might be intoxicated by sadness and done the thing which should not be done.
A couple of moments later, you might get your sense back and ask yourself like saying like what am I done?! Was It too crucial to share with him?! Definitely you a negative sound from your soul which is not. I know as humans we have a vast number of emotions and I seem human bodies are like a deep freeze where we preserve all of our emotions in the depth of our hearts to make them cold and preserve them for a long time. Sometimes some unexpected incidents all of a sudden occur in our life, in fact, this is called life. When encountering that situation in our life different souls reacts differently.
Like I saw a friend of mine who hardly reveal anything no matter what's happening with his life or what's the situation going through in his life. Because he has a hard soul which absorbs all of the trash of his life. No matter how big the problem he faces in his life, he has a miraculous power and using that power he can convert the huge trash into micro ones. Seeing this kind of power is too rare because we all are made with emotions. When someone can control their emotions at right time, they don't have much to regret about anything and reach a solid place in their life.
I try most of the cases to be like him because I believe my emotions matter to me, It could not be a matter of headache for others as It felt to me. Like something terrible happened with you and you for to share with your squad. When they are chit-chatting in a place they take your issues in a lite way. While meeting up together, guys make fun and your issue would be a topic of fun which would not be. Yes, This kinda scenario I have glimpsed a number of times to happen, noticing that I had taken a lesson. By expressing the issues you predicted you could have released the pain in your heart but It affects you in a reverse way.
You had to convey more pain just because you shared the tale with them as they did not take it seriously, as they take it as a matter of fun. If you hold the pain of not telling anyone then hold the trash in the depth of your heart which is the most painful task. If you are not able to do that then made someone who is worthy of your trust otherwise there is no way.