We need to mix with various types of people at different times in different stages of our lives and It's a common law to live. People are living on the planet with a diversity of mentality. Some of them follow the law, I meant some people enjoy acquainted with new people, love to make new friends and they are called extroverts. But there are some people who are existing
In our society, they not only truly avoid crowds but also they are very much hesitant to make a new friend.
Although making a new friend is quite a tough task for them, they need to deal with various people to survive. Yes, they do the task with annoyance as they have no alternative options in their hands. Just imagine for once, Do you have a friend with the attribute or do you get a person in your vicinity who has this attitude?
Yes, I have one friend who has anxieties about meeting with new people, he doesn't feel comfy dealing with various people and it's a quite tough task for him to make a new friend so early. Whenever a stranger comes to join in our chit chat for a while, he doesn't sit in the place with comfort where we adapt to the situation quite nicely. What do you think, having those kinds of things in a person is quite a normal thing? Personally, I don't think so. If you are an introvert & think that having the quality is quite a normal thing because it's your choice how you deal with your life then I would like to say, In the long run, you will suffer a lot nursing the property in you.
Telling the truth, once in my lifetime I had this feature in me but not that extreme like my friend. I could have fun with new people If my understanding matched with him. Suddenly I realised meeting a couple of people doesn't make any great change in my life. As much as I am acquainted with new people I may know something unknown from them, In fact, making new friends is a great virtue and It may help me in my academic and upcoming professional life as well.
I know It's quite a touch to avoid quality and adapt to a new one overnight. We all nothing changes in overtime, It takes time and patience. Now, I'm quite good at dealing with new people and I have needed a couple of years to arrive there. Let me share an experience of mine with you, for the last couple of days I was in gossiping with two seniors and they both are approx thirty above by age. The most interesting part is they both were unknown to me when we met first and it's about fifteen days of meeting together, they are relatives of one of my close friends.
The last fifteen days It was great fun while taking with them. That two guys were too much friendly and lovingly talked with us. Last day the meeting was not held just because one of them was a Marine engineer and he returned to his workplace and the other was quite sick. As we been meeting for last fifteen days and we spent a great time together whenever the last evening came I felt empty inside.
My soul was thirsty to know their conditions, Immediately I called one of them and asked about his physical condition. Yes, when you meet with an unknown person for a good period of time then it can be a matter of connected with unknown souls and that's a great thing I ever felt in my life.