It seems that In our life cycle we go through a multi number of situations, the situations we face sometimes it's predicted, and sometimes some incidents that occur in our lives are entirely out of our expectations. To me all of the situations that we face walking on the way of our life, are primarily divided into two scenarios, between these two, one is good times when it gets past we like to recognise it as good memories, another one is bad times when it gets past as like the same we like to recognise it as bad memories.
Good and bad memories both are equally part of our life, mostly we love to memorize the good recollections of our past when we get free while memorising the scenarios gives us nostalgic feelings. On the contrary, I feel bad times like a nightmare to me. As soon as you cut off the memory from your life, your life will go on smoothly. If you hold the bad memories, you will never get peace. I believe bad memories are not the worst thing in our life, there is a great lesson hidden in them. To get that, you just need to grab the thing correctly. Let me teach you the great lesson hidden in by telling a story.
A boy named Abid was so active in his study, so hard working and determined to fulfil his dreams from his childhood. His parents built him up like a lion so that he could bravely face any kind of hard situation. He had such a good family background, all of his uncles and Aunties were very fond of him and they treated him like their son as he was such a fulgent student among all of the kids in his family. Everything was going so smoothly, his desire was to be the shining face in his family. That's why he would do so much hard work.
One day a night came to him like a nightmare, he was praying to God to not make it real. A terrible accident happened to him and with his family, his all family members went on a family trip but he refused to go just because he had an examination the next day. A couple of hours later, he got a piece of pathetic news, the news was his all family members I mean his parents, brother and sister got a serious car accident. He had just broken down after he had heard the news. Immediately, he went to the hospital as soon as he could. But after a couple of minutes, later the doctors came out from the Operation Theatre and informed him that no one was alive in the accident.
He felt like the whole sky broke over his head. He felt like his feet didn't have enough strength to stand. He could not believe the speech from the doctors for a while. His uncles and aunties who claimed him as their son. They didn't give him that much support during his bad time. He saw the real human behind their mask. In the end, he didn't find much support but as I have said earlier his parents built him up like a lion, so he fought back again in life and lastly, in the long run, was successful. He didn't look at his bad time as the worst of his life, he took a great lesson from it. He took it as a blessing not as a curse.