Dear hivers
I am in pains, the type that gets stuck in your chest like the stab of a knife, or like a big needle stuck at the center of your chest.
Today I have understood the difference between wailing, groaning and crying,
And I have done all three today.
How do I comfort her, what words do you tell a friend and a sister who has just lost her husband in the most painful way right before her eyes. Barely 7months after their wedding.
Ohh all the dreams, all the hopes, all the pillow talks of the future, all the plans for kids.
He didn’t even wait to see his unborn child in the womb, now that baby will come out and will only be told of what kind of a person his or her father was.
It’s painful I cannot lie, I have put myself in her shoes over and over again, I have thought to myself if it was mine what will I do, how will I move on, what words will I want to hear.
I am drained from crying for my friend, life has dealt my babygirl a hard blow, one that is going to be so hard to get up from.
I have looked for the right words to say to her, I have prayed for her, I have asked the Lord questions,
I need answers lord
I need answers
So many things do not add up
So manny things do not make sense to me right now anymore.
I am pained
the type of pain that gets stuck in your chest like the stab of a knife, or like a big needle stuck at the center of your chest.
We are drowning in death and bad news in this country, God save us.
I chose to glory in the lord
I choose to glory in the God of my salvation because his word tells me that
If my friend walks through the waters He God is there,
If she walks through the rivers, He is there,
If she walks through fire, He is also there for her.
And tho it may not seem that way to her right now, I will continue to remind God of his word concerning her life, if he allowed this to happens to her, He surely has to have a plan,
He always has a plan right?
Right now I need her and her unborn baby to be fine and Okay. And above all I pray for peace of heart and mind for her.
Someone say a prayer for my sister and friend.
Please don’t tell me in the comments that God knows best or it is well,
I know it is well,
I need you all to say an actual prayer for her please.
NB: all the reward from this post will go to my friend, as an expectant mother, she will need all the money she can get.