**# Many people think that living as a couple is always rosy..., but this is the true reality.
Living with the person you love is not what everyone thinks it is.
It's not getting up early in the morning to have breakfast in bed together. It's not snuggling in bed together until we fall asleep peacefully every night. It's not always having the house clean and the perfect meal freshly cooked every day.
Living with the person you love is arguing over simple things, like who forgot to take out the garbage..., it is falling asleep because the day has been hard and you are exhausted..., it is arguing over financial issues, it is someone who pulls the covers off you when you sleep and you wake up because of the cold..., arguing and jumping for nothing, just because you are tired, etc.
But in spite of everything, every day you look forward to seeing that person very much or you go home every day to meet that same person who you know loves you and cares about you.
It's laughing at the moment they accidentally did something funny, it's imitating each other, it's cooking dinner together as we talk and making it easier to get along because we both had a complicated day.
It's living through an emotional crisis and having someone lovingly sit next to you and hug you and tell you it's going to be okay, it's going to be okay...and you believe it.
It's loving that same person even when they drive you fucking crazy and drive you out of your mind.
To live with the person you love is to argue over trifles, silly and constant..., but it is also to have a love that many people spend their lives looking for. Or that many times they tried to take away from you, but that love was stronger.... It is not perfect and it is very difficult to keep it balanced every day, but it is wonderful and the best thing you can experience, because if it were easy, what a pity if it were easy, because then, it would not be worth it.**
