Hello hiver friends! I’m back your Quenyme sharing my second blog. It’s a tough month for me because of some circumstances dropped by, but life must go on. I am thankful that I was able to share my experiences in this platform to ease my heart from hard times.
Anyway, sharin’ to you my reflection of how great moms are. What would be the world of a mother inside and outside the home? Of course, the main character is Quenyme, a housewife and a working mom.
Let me start that It all starts with a dream. A dream that breaks the ignorance of a bloomed lady. To become a full-grown woman. Most of ladies’ happiness is to find her other half in life. A lady walking in the aisle bringing her beautiful bouquet and with eyes crinkled at the edges.
I was happy back then when I married to my husband. Before it happens, I have heard many hearsays that a lady should be fully-equipped physically, mentally and spiritually before marrying. They say, it’s like you’re riding a ferris wheel, many times you’re in down but if you surpassed you can go at the top.
Being a working mom is very hard. Though sometimes only were struggling on finances but most of the time I’m struggling mentally because of my work. It adds up physically because when I arrived at home I have to prepare food for the dinner, wash the dishes after eating and furnishing the topsy-turvy things of my toddler around the room.
I have to ensure that everything is all set before going to bed. I have no rest on Saturday because I need to wash clothes and also go to the market to buy consumable goods for the next week. On the other hand, it’s less hassle for me because I paid a nanny to take care of my baby whole day.
I am not complaining because I know it’s my duty being a mom and that’s a mom should be! By now, I slowly accept the fact that this would be my role and my world. I realized that a woman or mothers should have a strong character more than his husband. Has a long patience and most of all a prayerful one.
Not everyone has the character and ability of what a woman should be. I really appreciate all the mothers/ wife out there who wish to have a harmonious life together with her family. To paid sacrifices just to have decent living and ask God the rest.
I can say, the world of a mother/ wife lies on her own family she built. To find her true happiness brought by her love to his husband. Also, many words can describe a mother but that depends on how she shows to the world.
I’m thankful that God gave me a responsible husband and accepts my weaknesses. Who comfort me when I’m stress at work. Though sometimes he did not listen when I have chikas and things to say hahaha. I can say its nature on boys especially when they think it’s immature.
I also thank God that he gave me a cute little baby to be my inspiration every day. Even though it’s hard to raise a baby but God give me the strength and will to strive hard and build a family that I prayed for.
However, being a fully-grown woman has a big responsibility. Not only herself but to put things to her family first. I can say now I am a fully-grown woman with a purpose. These strength I have now I owe it to God. I hope moms out there make it through even how hard life is. Just pray to God.
This reflection of mine you may think supper chessy but I know someone can relate. I hope this blog reflects same as you dear hiver readers. I hope you enjoy reading. Don’t forget to comment, reblog and upvote. Up until on my next blog. This is your Quenyme saying I have a purpose. Thank you!
