Age is definitely just a number when it comes to love, and I for one completely agree to this saying with my full chest, but not in all cases though. Love is a beautiful feeling that shouldn't be hindered by age, neither should it be affected by what the public has to say, what matters at the end of the day is the mutuality and connection between the involved parties. If the love is there, fight for it with everything you've got in you and don't give a care about what anyone has to say, be it good or bad, just fight for your happiness at all cost. Giving listening ears to what the public has to say is like giving them the total power to control every aspect of your life. Regardless of what you do in this world, people will always have one or two things to say, which is why it is best to live one's life on ones term, life is too short to give a damn about what anyone has to say regarding that which brings you peace and makes you happy...
I am a proud lover of love, and because of this fact i have been given different names by my friends and mates, some of them call me a lover boy while the rest call me a finished man, the truth is that i don't care what they call me at all, what matters to me is the fact that i love love and i am a proud lover boy, i won't hesitate to give my all when it comes that one special soul i love. As a guy hoping to tie the knot someday, age is definitely not a factor i would consider when settling down, and that's because I've come to the realization that love can be found anywhere, with anyone and that too in the most craziest place possible. The heart is quite uncontrollable when it comes to love, the heart is a lover of peace and happiness, therefore it automatically attract and falls for who makes it happy and brings it peace...
I need to clear the air first regarding my introduction paragraphs before moving on, this way many people won't get the wrong understanding of the message i'm trying to pass across. When i say age shouldn't be a determining factor in love, i am not saying it can't be a determining factor in marriage, there is a clear difference between a marriage between age 28 and 33 and a marriage between age 27 and 55. The first is normal but the other is considered abnormal in all form, to me the age difference i consider normal between a couple is at most 10 years, anything above that is considered abnormal, personally i can date or marry a lady that is at most 5 years older than i am, same way i can marry a lady that is five years or more younger than i am...
I just can't imagine how it would feel to have my wife start calling me "daddy wa or daddy" just because of a very wide age difference and respect, it feels somehow in my body when i go visit any close acquaintance and i see and hear the wife addressing her husband as either "daddy" or "daddy wa". The best decision at this point is to have a rule that says one can only marry within their age bracket, at most 10 years is okay and normal to an extent, but because i consider it normal doesn't mean i will start hunting for those who are ten years older than i am, when there are fresher bloods within my age bracket...
I would strongly agree to a rule that says a person can only marry anyone who is either ten years older or ten years younger than they are, and that's because it is normal to an extent. Honestly, if this is made a rule, i don't think there will be much chaos, after-all the rate at which we have a couple with a more than ten years age is very low, compared to the ones within the same age bracket...
In conclusion, because i mentioned above that age is just a number when it comes love doesn't mean i agree to it in all cases, there are some cases it is considered a big taboo, it becomes abnormal when the age difference is too much, an example is like that of R.D and N.N. To a couple within the same age bracket or that of at most 10 years difference, this saying is very much applicable, but to any ship above 10 years age difference, it is not in any way accepted, which means that saying is not in any way applicable and that’s on period...
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