Do you think it is healthy for a couple to abstain from sexual relations before marriage?

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I will give you a real life story, and i think i have written this same story before to answer a similar question.

A young couple from one christian church decided to embark on a no pre marital sex untill on their wedding night. The guy was much older Than her.

Even under serious temptation, when the woman tried to make advances, to atleast feel "the member" , who will be uniting with her member, the guy strongly objected. True it rose anticipation and eagerness for the wedding night magic.

They had a beautiful wedding, and i am sure the woman could not just wait for it all to end so the members could finally unite, legally.

That night, she came to a disturbing and very disappointing realization that her husband barely had anything down there. Her husband's member hardly showed its masculinity while erect., and its at that moment when it all hit her, she came to a painful conclusion of why this man was not yet married, at the age he was and why he was the one who strongly advocated for no pre marital sex, and now, here she was, stuck in a "untill death do us apart" situation. How will she be happy in this marriage when her sexual needs are not met? Even i wonder.