What is life without at least a single human that cares about and readily supports you and you do the same for. Is there any essence living life alone, doing life alone. Life itself is not all that rosy and sweet, why then would anyone think it's best to go through life alone.
Every one has their own definition of friendship and what they expect from it. In the most basic explanation, friendship is having a person who always have my back, knows me enough to know guess my next move, what I like, believe, etc. Friendship is built on the ground of shared interest. I have different circles of friends, let me explain that. I have friends that the only thing that birth the friendship and is keeping us together is school and a little bit of few things. Another is music, we share similar passion for music and want to grow together, another one is career. I want to learn more, improve and grow big with them in the career path that we have chosen and thw career path is not exactly the same.
Anyone who has ever had a good and faithful friend will know what it would feel like to not have any. I mean, life is tough, you won't always have the energy, the money, the skill, thw confidence, the right approach, the wisdom, the resources, the connection, the knowledge, the experience, etc to do or scale through always. Remember, if you think others who aren't your friend might help you, that's a lie; everyone will most probably not go out of their way for you except they have something in it for themselves, the human mind is selfish and that's okay. No one will always be willing to help without having something in return, always. And that's where friends come in, the real ones can go all in for you, they can move mountains together with you. Woth friends, you aren't doing the consistency, the resiliency and all that toughness life brings alone.
The awareness that you have someone who will make you laugh crazily, who can help you in difficult times, that friend that will be available whenever he/she can help. That awareness, that privilege is joy, complete joy and peace. You got something to replace with the whole bad things of thos life.
I can't imagine life without good friends, nah. It can't be possible, how will you survive it, you can't do life alone. I've had amazing experiences with every friend I've had and still have, there is no way life could have been better without them: the laughs, the arguments, the foods, the walk, the gists, the looking out for each other, the little fights, the misunderstanding, the support, the reassurance that you/they matter more than any random person, etc. All of these are enough to convince you to have friends, good and faithful friends.
I'm aware that a lot of people have had their share of bad friends or pretenders who disguise as friends, it is hurtful but there are good people out there, sincere anf transparent. I've had my final share of being with fake friends but I have gotten over it and made new real and faithful friends. Life is easier with 2, 3 and more real friends. Some people miss out defining what kind of friendship they want and their expectations to people they want to be friends with. You have to know exactly what you want and how, friendship is very important, it's a relationship that can make or ruin you, so you gotta be careful and precise. Friendship is sweet because every sacrifice, effort, money, time, words, moments are always worth it but doing it with the right people who value and appreciates you as much as you do makes it worth so much more.
Thank you for reading through my post, see you in the next one.
