@galenkp, Of course I join in but don't think I'm going to post about why I'm sometimes an idiot, already each of us knows we are at any time in our lives so I'd rather embellish it in another way and share with you, What mistakes from the past have I learned to create a more enjoyable and productive current life.💪🏻📣
Ironically the worst mistake I could have made in my past is to have wanted to be good to everyone regardless of whether I was being good to myself, for many years I lived for others, I tried to please everyone, wearing myself out mentally and physically. And don't get me wrong, helping is NOT a bad thing, I just never knew how to set limits. For a long time I was very busy trying to look good with other people but without realizing it I knew that personally I was not advancing at all, I was not meeting my goals or my objectives simply because I was busy meeting other people's goals.
I admit that I did feel good every time I heard my name in other people's mouths saying what a good person I am but again and again I wondered how good I was being to myself? Really being so focused on pleasing other people I forgot that I also deserved all the attention and also in the midst of my reflection and self-knowledge I knew that I really should not have to expect anything from anyone to emerge and project my goals, I am the owner and protagonist of my life and it depends on me how far I advance, I learned to prioritize myself, to put myself above people and not necessarily always say no but first I make sure to find myself.
I neglected myself a lot, in each of the most important aspects where a woman should shine, physically, mentally, emotionally, psychologically. Since I learned to prioritize myself, love myself above all and realize my value 👑💓 above all my value as a woman, because although I am a single mother one day I understood that attitude is everything and self-love too, that you don't necessarily need someone to shine everyone has their essence 💛 and shines with their own light. Since I learned and reflected on all these things the doors have opened for me. It's as if the doors of the universe opened for me after I opened my eyes and realized what was going on inside me.
Today I feel pretty, beautiful, sensual, sexy! I will soon say that I am in the middle of my career which is not really just any career, it is the one I always dreamed of since I was a child, just thinking that I will fulfill one of the most important goals of my life, my dream of becoming a psychologist, gives me so much joy and satisfaction, I swear that every day I make an effort, no matter how difficult my path may seem because it is, it is very difficult! 🥹 Sometimes I feel very exhausted because I have a lot of things to do being alone, take care of my son, take care of the house where we live alone, maintain a good rate in my studies and make sure that my son also does well in school, guide him, take care of him, be a mom, be a woman, work, But beyond the burdens, all these things for me are a blessing because there are people who do not even have the opportunity to live everything that with effort I am experiencing. The simple fact of being alive! That is the greatest gift. LIFE.
Basically this was the big mistake of my past, to live 100% for others when nobody really lived for me, it was myself. So this is a very personal reflection that I share with you and I thank the people who had the initiative on the subject. I feel different, I feel different, I feel happy, I feel grateful, I feel that I can give even more and I am on this path of transformation and evolution. I love you all! A big hug and have all a happy new year, remember that when you need it you can talk to me. ✨🌹
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