I saw a post where the poster posited and advised ladies to quit their marriage if their husband cannot satisfy them sexually.
There are different many ideas about sexual satisfaction that rarely get to the root of the problem, especially with married people.
I read a book by a foreign author, a lady, who said that most women in marriage do not know what orgasm is because they never experience it.
Presently, for most ladies, the thought of going into a marriage without a test-run with the guy to know how sexually satisfying he'd be to her in marriage is hunting.
Many want to be sure he has the sexual dexterity to bring her always to the orgasmic heavens of 'cloud 9' and play her like a 'Spanish guitar.'
The truth is, sex is not complicated. The problem is, it is overstated or exaggerated. People talk so much about it and accept different farce and myths.
Most times, some of the ideas that people have about sex are from porn sites. It is unfortunate that this is even what some church people are fiddling with.
They forget to understand that porn stars are heavily drugged to be at a certain performance and the movies acted and bloated to actualize certain effects.
Also, interestingly, porn movies are not about sexual satisfaction. But about sexual prowess and the machinery use of sex to bloat others to see their partner as toy.
God's idea of sex is at variance with most of the ideas that Christians of nowadays are fiddling with. God's idea is not about staying hard to please a woman at the expense of your life.
Some men are being pushed to take extraneous drugs just to stay longer. Who told you that sexual satisfaction is just about staying longer?
Sexual satisfaction happens within a real sex pact and emotional bonding between two individuals who are in a romantic zone.
The reason lots of married people find it difficult to achieve orgasm is not because they aren't staying longer. It has more to do with how emotionally indulging and yielding they are with each other.
Some couples are unfriendly with each other but want to reach cloud 9 when they meet. You can't be shroud all day and suddenly become loving at night in bed. It doesn't work out that way.
The tone is set at dawn and the tempo sustained throughout. You don't need Viagra or any of those drugs that keeps you hard to satisfy a woman. Be first pleasant to her and remain emotionally connected with her.
With the right things in place in the right environment, she'd be there before you say "jack." Don't destroy the veins in your body with drugs and don't hurt your mental health.
Sex is not war. Cheers
