Greetings, everyone!
To be real with this contest question, I have never had any experience with trauma in my life but through people's experiences, it's not a good one to be in, precisely.
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It can traumatize people's dreams and visions if care is not taken.
Trauma can bring hopelessness, a whole meaningless thought can come and you might think life is not what you thought or expected. Trauma can make you believe what it's not because of your experiences. The majority of People can say, this thing exist but because of your experiences you can say no
I'm going to share people's trauma and how it affected them.
A lady got married to her lover. The first stage of the marriage was very sweet and enjoyable. They stayed together, did things together, played together, and children came. Along the line, the husband started cheating on her with other singles and married women. It was so bad that she sat him down and talked to him, but still didn't hear her advice. He continued with his lifestyle till her children grew up. The issue is that it affected her business, prayer life, and other aspects of her life. Her duty now is that she has started seeing light and has stopped talking to him, but is silent for him in the hope of his repentance.
The husband didn't just have an affair outside with other women, he spoiled the wife's reputation outside, and he made mention of not going to support her business financially but always ready to support other women outside than to support his wife. Unfortunately, this lady was living close to her husband's house, and each time the wife stepped out, she would make a mockery of her husband not supporting her. Her husband didn't just stop there, he went on with other women, spending and building for them. When the consequences come, the wife will be the one to stand in the gap for prayers for him to live. Hmmm God of mercy.
This attitude of her husband keeps draining her, but she perseveres and always prays for God's mercy to prevail.
It traumatizes her because she didn't expect this from her husband. At times, she will call her children and talk to them about not marrying the kind of father. She would tell them to pray before choosing their life partners.
As time goes on, God has helped her to start her own business and pay attention to her children without being disturbed by her husband's attitude.
The trauma she experienced almost took her life away, and an attack came, and the rest of the problem.
She finally settled by developing herself, working on her business, and staying focused on herself.
This is my response to the Hivelearners featured contest week 218 episode 3
I love, I care, and I forgive
