For some, it's the computer with its virtual games and social networks, for others - the TV or the book. If our dreams are positive, if they do not deviate us from reality and help us to live and work - wonderfully. If, however, they take away all our time and put us on the yoke of illusions - the situation is serious.
Not all illusions are harmful, it is important what form they accept. Because, from the point of view of psychoanalysis, the withdrawal in fantasies is a kind of psychological defense: in this way we deal with stress, anxiety or pain. Over time, this process deepens and leads to two opposite results: either one closes and stays completely in the fantasy world, losing touch with relatives and abandoning his work , or learning to control his fantasies. In this case, in the presence of talent, the dreamer gets the chance to become a good artist, musician or writer.
Why we continue to live in our fictional world-why? We continue to build a wall with invisible bricks, on imaginary world , which we even no longer see, why?
We speak words that we do not even know what we say, throw them away no matter what they mean, what meaning they carry, how this words reach other people ...
It is ugly to live in an illusion! The illusion where you are the author of yourself. It's as if you're playing someone's role in life .
