Accepting the tragedies and the bad things in life in this world of social networks what makes one believe that everything is beautiful and perfect when the reality is very different. Does it happen to you?
We don't have much time.
Life changes us from one moment to another, but we are very careless with time, we think we have enough and that's why we have the luxury of keeping a love for you, of hiding a dream and not daring to live intensely.
One of the things that I have in mind the most today, especially after everything that we have had to live is that life is a very particular opportunity. It is uncertain, it is ephemeral, but at the same time an extraordinary one.
When we think how everything falls apart in an instant, or how your reality can shake without asking for permission, then you understand the importance of living with dedication, with passion and without keeping ourselves for what others may think, or for believing that later we will be able to.
I think that one of the worst pains that remains when everything changes suddenly is that which we wanted to say and could not, that which we had left for a special occasion. On the contrary, the one who said everything, who gave everything, who I love fully knows that even if it hurts there are no regrets and that, from someone who has lost I promise you that it makes a difference.
Today everyone who can read this publication (regardless of what they may have suffered) has the chance to invest that time (which is not spare) in a different way.
It's always good to remember that when we help it's not about you, it's about the people or communities we relate to.
This is especially important in a world where it seems that if we don't tell what we do, it doesn't exist. And it's not about not encouraging others to help, raising awareness or using our media to support. It's about understanding the role we occupy and not believing that we are more important than the stories of the people we work with.
When we lose the boundary that or what we do to help is about acts of service, and how I make the best I have to give available to people, then the path is distorted and we see outrages among many people, who do it is to end up causing harm, when our premise was to help.
All human beings have an ego, which sometimes what it does is cause harm, misunderstandings, criticism, EGO that has to keep it at bay. In order to genuinely help, we have to remember that we are not the protagonists in other people's stories, we are only the protagonists in our own. We cannot reject suffering, we live in spite of suffering. What's the point of it all?
Janitze.🌷❣️
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited by me with Canva
Translation with |DeepL