Of course, I don't want to argue too much with people, it can be anyone, starting from my wife, I don't like to argue unnecessarily with my relatives or friends. But I feel more comfortable to talk logically.
Arguing never really solves anything. I think if we spend some time thinking and making constructive comments than we spend on arguing, it can be more effective. Besides, arguing makes the environment very boring. Becomes and feels boring which is actually not desirable in any way and I think in every case a little tolerant and humane should be thought about every matter.
Just today in the evening my wife spoke to me about the presentation and she kept asking me questions quite irrationally but I could have answered if I wanted to but if I had answered it would have turned the matter in a different direction that's why I kept quiet and tried to listen to her words but she I accepted the words but not like that, I actually wanted the atmosphere to remain as it is.
In fact, if I had escalated the matter constantly, it would have turned into such a situation that there would have been no constructive comments, but the atmosphere would have been so bad that there would have been a lot more chance of lightness in the relationship and an upset thing would have worked.
But I think since I am much older than her in this case, I tried to explain it to her. Although she was angry, but I think that in such a situation, it is very necessary to compromise someone so that the relationship is strong between them.
To be honest, there is a great need to understand each other first, then every relationship is very lively and alive. However, not everyone has such a mindset. Because everyone tries to answer every word. I think it's more acceptable to comment constructively than reply.
