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We have that problem where people who are delusional want the best for you are extremely rare and they will not want you to work for them or do anything for them.
They want you to pursue your best self, do your original thing and thrive in your own unique way.
One of the worst things that Nigerian people can do is to be that they are going to be handed over a future of a balance where money won't matter, where everything needs to be fulfilled, where they will no longer have to compete to get what they want.