The love between a father and his girl child is second to non, I don’t think even Science can give a meaning to the Depth of love that is between this two. The father terms to want to protect his girl child,for as long as he can.
Mind you this love is not one sided. That is why it is always more difficult to convince a girl child against her father because she sees her father as a hero and she expect him to know better and do better.
Father’s will alway see there girl child no matter how old as still a child for as long as he want to, and can, it always difficult for them to consider or even see there girl child as old enough to be with a man, and than when the man is older the hatred is longer.
The thought of someone playing with something or someone that you love and cherish is just a no no, and no body is ever happy when something they love is been toyed with, than be it a human a complete human definitely there will be hard feelings, misunderstanding and even hatred. With just the thought of one’s love one be being mistreated in this case a girl child a daughter
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The father will always want to be the only male figure in his Daughter life.
Aside her bothers if there is any other male in her life there will be misunderstanding especially when she is not willing to see reason with her father and put his worry into consideration.
The hate alway come from the father not willing to share his child because as far as he knows she is still his little baby that needs to be protected and love
The tenderness That he has with his daughter is also second to non, and as a father he will always look out for her safety so the ideal of playing tough toward the boyfriend and make sure his daughter was in safe hand is needed.
The experience of a father in his relationship stand as a lesson of fear toward how his daughter is treated, the risk around a girl child is more and if the he could put her in a bubble, so she didn’t get hurt he would.
The understanding that comes afterward, between the father and his daughter boyfriend is alway as a result of understanding, as well as conviction of safety as soon as there is a conviction of intentionality and love, in as much as he really don’t want to let go, he has to remind himself of how few years early he was in that same shoe and needed all the believe he could get.
For any father to get friendly with his daughter boyfriend surely the boyfriend has convinced, lol him beyond all reasonable doubt that he is capable to love, and cherish his child maybe as close as he did, or even better than he did.