We all want to speak our minds as a sign of freedom. We want to explain things and also address everything. We just want to get things out of our minds without caring how it affects anyone else. We want to feel good with ourselves and leave the other person worse off, sometimes.
We just want to keep focus on ourselves without caring about how it makes others feel. We sometimes don't weigh the actions in relations with the outcomes. Most people speak before they think and when they now realize how deep the effects run or when they learn the other side of the matter, they feel bad.
We always give people a piece of our mind rather than a piece of our heart borne out of love. There are times we need to address the issue and there are times we need to overlook. I am never against correcting people...but there are times you study the situation and stay away from a fight you shouldn't get involved in. I noticed, most people address the person rather than the issues in their attempt to address a situation. Never attack the man IF you must really speak about the issue.
We need to let the power of love override the love of power. There is no need to oppress others so that you can feel superior to them in some capacity. We always feel the need to fuel our ego. Have an aura and not an odour. Life is more than what you can see...what influence are you spreading around?
Most issues we address they don't really worth it. There is no fuss about it. They are issues we could perfectly overlook and still be fine, but our ego wouldn't allow it and the need to pull the other person down out of our own insecurity makes it hard for us to look the other way. As humans we have ego and we are insecure about certain things too. Where is the need to oppress others? Most people focus on themselves...think about others and put yourself in other people's shoes and imagine how it's hurt.
My popular quote says "If we care enough, share enough, then the world would have enough. The world have enough of our needs but not enough for our greed."
Give people a piece of you - your love...your heart...rather than just a piece of your mind. We could do well by cutting people some slacks and looking the other way sometimes. What are you doing to build others, improve yourself and to make the world a better place? What's your quota to others instead of focusing on your ego?
Thank you for your time.
My pen doesn't bleed, it speaks, with speed and ease.
Still me,
My tongue is like the pen of a ready writer.
Olawalium; (Love's chemical content, in human form). Take a dose today; doctor's order.
