Fellow steemians, Good morning
My little research on African parent has really left me speechless, you will ask why? Yes! Let me start from the caring aspect of it, African parent has a special way of loving their children in which I appreciate them for that. But they took the caring part to the next level all because they have suffered so much on the children.
When a child is been giving birth to, everyone is happy because it is a new ordeal and a happy thing in the family. The parent are all excited and they keep nuturing the child as the child grow.
When the child start going to school, they feel happy that their child is going to school which is a good thing. Now, the idea that the child is still small is always seen in everything they do for the child. Even when the child reaches adult age they still sees the child as their small boy or girl.
Sighting myself as an example, I keep having issues with any decision I make with my parent, the simple truth is you are still a small boy! What! No
Sometimes we have to make some decision without informing them and after getting the result we want, then we can show them how our decision has been productive.
My research has shown that most children always have issues with their parent over decisions they make. My view on the decision aspect is that, don't ever decide to do something bad simply because they refused to agreed with your decision. Keep everything cool with them and also do what you think is right for yourself and show them result they will appreciate your effort.
Anybody who can't take risk in life will remain stagnant. Life involve taking risk and leaving the rest to God for blessing.
I have started taking responsibilities for myself and I am having it in mind to show my parent the result of my good decision I have taken.
For any of my friends out their in the same situation like myself, don't give up that good decision and plans you have for 2018, go for it and make it happen, you are going to be successful.
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Have a nice day as you go out today!!
