My husband does this a lot. It really bothers me. I don't do that to him but he does it to me. Last night he told me I treated his family like shit and was an ass hole to them. I asked when and he brought up something from years ago. Sigh......well not only was,I not trying to be an ass hole I was not in any understanding back then of how different his family was from mine and yes I made mistake because my family is tough skinned and I am used to being around people who just aren't offended very easy but I am still now horribly embarrassed by it all. I wonder when if ever they will forgive me. But it was not anything horrible I simply was telling my husband why our son did not want to go to church with his cousin and aunt because he did pack nice enough clothes and he was embarrassed but he said I made them all feel shit. Sigh.
