I welcome you to my blog. Every individual has questions they ask themselves, questions about growth, the types of jobs they want to be involved in, and some even go as far as the type of person they would love to make their partner. We all ask ourselves this question, and we answer it sincerely because we cannot lie to ourselves; we all know what we truly want. This prompt is more like a talk show where I am both the guest and the host. A lot of personal questions will be asked, questions that really matter.
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I am really grateful to the Hivenaija community for an opportunity to express ourselves. Many people had all these questions bottled up while waiting for someone to ask them, but since no one did, this is an avenue for everyone to let it out. Ask those questions you have been wanting someone to ask you, and since it's a question from you to you, you have to be honest with your answer.
Lately, listening to podcasts has been annoying, and gone are the days where you listened to podcasts to gain knowledge or learn a new thing. These days, podcasts are all about something entirely different: the Gen Z baddies talking about how someone else's money (a guy's) is their money or talking about one irrelevant thing or another with nothing to learn. Things that don't just add up, truth be told, sometimes I feel like many of the ladies invited on the podcast don't think before they respond to questions asked, or maybe it is just their reasoning.
Many good people stopped being good because humans these days only want to take advantage; nothing genuine once they see you are good, the friendship or relationship becomes parasitic, where they only want to gain even at your own detriment. So yes, doing good will leave you hurting. Just make sure you are being good to people who are worth it and are the right people. That is the only way you escape not getting paid evil for the good you did.
Well, I don't believe friends outgrow each other. When you go on social media, you see people talking about outgrowing their childhood friends. Well, for me, I don't think because life got better for one means they outgrew their friend. It is all based on one's mentality; no matter how much you have, those people you grew up with should be your friends forever. Life getting better for you does not mean you kick them out or cut them off; help them up your standard, as I believe no one will have your back like someone who knows you from home, knows your roots, and knows your story.
For many, a successful and fulfilled life is one where the individual has so much wealth and has broken so many records. For me, a successful and fulfilled life is one where everyone around me, including myself, is happy and has their dreams achieved. We make it look like success and fulfillment revolve around how much money one has, investments, and all, but no. One can have all these and not be happy.
There is no other way to make the world a better place other than by setting aside our differences and not letting color or race come in the way. We must all come together and work as one if we really want to make the world a better place. To coin it all, we must let love lead. The only way we can work together is if we live with each other; love is the only thing that can unite us all.
Thanks for reading my post.
