It states in chapter 38,under the caption, '' Obtaining Property by false pretence; Cheating.
From my observation, heartbreak is a cycle : a girl approached by a guy who is slightly older than she is, shows her the kind of appreciation, attention and affection she never imagined existed, and the only way to understand what is happening to them is to call it ''love''. They experience everything that love is supposed to be like but in the long run, love is responsibility. And after some months the boy will start expecting, subconsciously what every man expects from his partner the same goes to the girl. Hence these two people didn't know what love means, and the responsibility that follows it.,apart from having six and telling each other ''I love you" they become disappointed with each other and the boy normally may mustter courage and break up with the girl hurting her more. At this point, the girl leaves, losing both the affection and the "precious seed", while the boy lose his money and with little or no affection. But in most cases the guy believes that the sex covers up for the money he spent. Why this is so, is that guys don't enjoy anything that's heading to no where. There must be benefits, immediate or long-term. The girl on the other hand, walks out of the relationship thinking that because this guy "got what he needed(sex), that's why he left". This is not true and she leaves with that mindset that all guys are like that.
Why does it seem to be more and more challenging to find a happy and mutually beneficial and lasting relationship? Is love a myth? Personally, I think the right question should be : Am I being the right person? Am I happy with whom I am? Do I truly know what I desire in a relationship?
Now, this is how you invite emotional 419 into your life without knowing.
HAVING WRONG VALUES:
Most ladies will say that they like a guy who has good looks(tall, huge, deep voice, possesses six packs), and someone who could raise their own status, socially and financially, etc. Placing priority on these values and considerations will likely attract emotional 419iers your way. Don't get me wrong, I am not against having your physical preferences for an ideal spouse, but those qualities alone do not make a real man, much less a husband. This may be the reason why some ladies will date guys who are super hot but good-for-nothing. Although they may not be respected or maybe not even loved, they will stay with the guy because they look good to the public. It's pretty sad because many ladies will pass over guys who will make them happy and who will love them for who they are, just so that they can date someone, higher up on the status pyramid. Ultimately it is a matter of self esteem. If you as a person continue to look at yourself negatively, you will live on other people's definition about who you are.
DRESS SENSE:Avoid dressing in a way that exposes your body and don't apply excessive facial makeup. Most guys consider these as giveaway of a harlot. No man want to have a flash marketer as a wife. Beauty radiates from the inside. It glows and is seen in a woman mannerisms and not in one showcasing boobs, exposing her oil rigs, wearing over tight dress that brings out all the bulges in the name of fashion. Indecent dresses are only good for a nightstand, not for a life time.
HAVING SEX WITH A GUY:A sexual relationship is a very special gift. If you give it away so cheaply to someone you think is right, then how valuable is that gift next time you give it away for the next one you think is right? The right question should be, how many people do you want to sleep with before you find your Mr. Right? You don't need to kiss a lot of frogs before meeting with your real man. This is why most ladies think that because a guy '' got what he needed that's why he left.'' That is not True! You gave him what he didn't need, you feed his want. That's why he left you. There are plenty of great men in the world ; however some ladies need to change their mindset on their taste in men. Ladies, please stop saying ''all guys are the same. ''rather, say all the guys(or ladies) you like are the same.
DESPERATION:If you meet someone special whom you're desperate to know better, the emotion might be fear of acting stupid and being rejected. Have you ever been in a relationship with someone whose survival truly seemed to depend on your love? Someone who sat around waiting for you to make life bearable, who threatened to commit suicide if you ever break up? Or have you found yourself on grasping side of the equation, needing your partner the way you need oxygen? The emotion that fuels this kind of relationship isn't love ; it is desperation! Yes, I said it. THAT IS NOT LOVE. It can feel romantic at first, but over time it invariably fails to meet either partner's needs.
