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The social representation of the characteristics we display in the society is dependent on the type of social network (friends) we keep. If we keep a good and positively impactful social network, our value as well as worth in the society will be great but if we keep a negative and non-impactful social network, our value will be very much low. It will be a bad thing if we get a low value in a society because this will be that the person has a slim chance of making it big from that particular community.
This is the reason why we need friends who sharpens us to positivity and not the ones who will be a bad agent of socialization. Bad agent of socialization will surely lead to a decreased level of literacy and Ultimately, it will negatively affect the society. I personally have a standard in which my friends should reach and anyone who doesn't reach this standard will be seen as unworthy of being a friend to me.
My friends are people who are willing to impact in me positively while I impact in them positively. I don't make friends that will gain from me while I gain nothing, or a friend that I will gain from, while I they gain nothing..
To me that is parasitic instead of being mutualistic.
I love my friendship being educatively mutualistic and if a person cannot provide this requirement, then they aren't worth my friends, and if I cannot provide this requirement, then I see myself as being unworthy of the friendship.
In my friends cycle, we all are making it by God's grace. We all hustle for a better day ahead and we strive to make that better day come to pass. Most people of our age endulge in fraudulent acts, and unlawful things, but we? We hustle with our bare hands to ensure our financial success, and we read from diverse places to ensure our educational and philosophical success.
In times of need, we do have each other's back but my bad personality is that I don't trust nobody not even my mom or myself and as such, I always have a plan A,B,C,D,E, and F.
I know deep down that when I'm in any problem, they will show up for me and help me sort the problem but I don't trust them or nobody with my troubles. That's how I am created and because of this, I do have serious issues with my girlfriend and well, I'm trying my best to change that personality.
Few days ago I was in need of some financial assistance and I didn't want to go to them for help because of I don't like meeting nobody for help, but they noticed how withdrawn I was and noticed my issues, and some of them helped me with at least a little of what I was looking for. That's how strong my friendship is with them.
Thank you for reading through my post, I really appreciate.
I hope to see you next time.
