"Twenty children cannot play together for twenty years"- is a very popular phrase and this one is quite realistic. It means that with our growth we become busy with our life and we cannot stay together because of various kinds of reasons. For childhood time we make many friends and I believe that every friend we met because we wanted to remain friends forever rather than thinking about friendship for temporary time. Whatever the intention, we end up losing friends with our growth. We have limited energy and we have failed to maintain all the friendship. We became disconnected with them and, by the time we lost most of them and didn’t have the way to reconnect with them. Are we don't choose to connect with them because of our busy schedules.
What if all of a sudden, I was placed in a room with all of my childhood friends. It would be like a reunion for me and to be honest I would love to spend time with my childhood friends as long as possible. I have a lot of things to share and discuss with them and also want to hear what's going on in their life. I am very sure that all of us have taken different kinds of path and I am very curious to know how successful they are. Till now I think I didn't have anything significant to mention about me, but I think that I would be happy if I knew they were doing well in their life and I am quite sure about it. Few days ago, when I learned about of my classmate who used to be very dull in class were doing well made me feel very good. He was just my classmate, but I am very sure that I would be much happier if I know all of my childhood friend is doing very well.
Some people think that we could not stay in that room for long time because we are disconnected from each other for a long time and we might not have common topic to discuss but I think that it's not going to happen at least for my case. I was very picky one when choosing my friend and if I become friendly with someone it means that I was able to connect with them properly and our thoughts might get along otherwise we might not be friends. Besides friendship is something very serious for me and if I consider one my friends I think they are my true friends and there is a magical bond with them does not matter how long I remain disconnected from them I can connect to them properly whenever I talk with them. So, there is no reason for me to think that I would be in a situation where I would feel bored.
How much time might I spend in the room? Can you guess about it? I guess at maximum the conversation can go for 3.5 hours. You must think that why the time is very little, but I think that 3.5 hours is more than enough for me to communicate with each of them. I had very few friends in my life as I already said I was very picky one when making friends. I am sure my childhood friends would not reach double digits and having a good conversation with them is not so time consuming. Again, reunion is not a competition to share everything in a single day. It’s just a way to reestablish or restore the connection between us. What would be your thoughts if you encounter such a situation. I would love to know about it.
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