The imperfect nature of we humans is one thing that makes us as unique and special as we are.
Though there are many factors that shapes a human, including the environment we grow in, it is only kind of us to bring the positive side of our character instead of letting a bad time determine what we be in the nearest future or the character we exhibit.
It seems like the world is filled with people who exhibit more negative attitude than positive. the character they exhibit is possibly as a result of what they have been through. life is like a deep freezer, when it hits, the heart gets cold. colder than the peak of mountains. Some people on the other love to show the negative side of their person. Instead of putting in kindness, they always decide to b e the bad person for no good reason. they just get exited when they see other people in pain.
there are many character that i hate. These characters can make me cut of a friendship in the blink of an eye. It has actually made me walk away from many friendships though.
One of the character i hate so much is MANIPULATION.
We live in a world where every one is struggling to survive at any cost. The only thing they do not do is to kill another person for survival. based on this, many qualities have been learnt in other to get the fortune that is needed. one of these qualities is the act of manipulation.
People manipulate other people so they can get what they want. fellow humans are now being seen as tools that can be used to get the desired. kindness is overlooked as ruthlessness is now the other of the day. this process breaks people and make people live in the fantasy created by the manipulator.
i have been a manipulator and i have also been manipulated. i have also read some books of psychology to help sharpen my manipulative skills. Being manipulated was really really heartbreaking for me. especially when i realize who the manipulator was. However, i have come to the end of my self to understand that i do not need such negativities to get what i want or be what i want to be. it is better to be kind and calm than to be a manipulator.
The next thing is gossip. i like it but i hate it at the same time. i am a kind of person that enjoys it when they talk about me but then, i hate it because i feel like the people who are gossiping should look for better things to use their life for.
Lastly, i hate fighting and it irritates me. i prefer to be the loser and let peace reign than to be the winner if there is not going to be peace. i really hate to argue. if it will lead to an arguement, then everyone is right when i am wrong.
These are the three major things i really hate and could walk out of any friendship if the boundaries are crossed.
Thank you for reading.
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