There are parents who set high standards if they want to be the husbands of their children.
Among them must be civil servants
Have an income of a few dollars per month
Must be a certain university graduate
From a certain family
From a particular race or area
Must be a hafidz of the Qur'an
And others that cause the Child difficult to get his soul mate.
The matter of a soul mate is a matter of fate, but I am a believer that whatever happens to us also has a causal relationship.
If so then the consequences will be like this. If so then the consequences will also be so.
Although again the cause is also part of the destiny.
Our parents, especially Dad, never set specific criteria for anyone who will be his son-in-law.
Provided Sholih (in their respective standards), responsible, his son likes, then ready to take to KUA.
Dad never considered his pride to have a rich, rich, or well-off son-in-law.
As a result, the three girls married young.
Even from 3 of her married daughters, two of them, both son-in-law and her son have not finished college.
My three daughters were married with cheap dowries, less than ten gold mayam. Again, because he does not want, if the dowry becomes a burden for his future son-in-law and will probably become a prestige so manjadi part ujub for him.
The three daughters of my father who were married, there was no festive party, just a simple thanksgiving that my son was married and I'm happy.
Do not have to think about the amount of debt to be paid after the party is over.
So now, the three married Dad's daughters have a very decent life. Allah provides abundant sustenance and a sense of solace in their families. Their education is complete, their degree is successfully achieved, even one child and two of his daughters in law have been and almost got a master's degree.
I'm proud of you Dad ..
On the simple nature that exists on you ..
