I was in Lagos yesterday and I could help but get drenched in the Lagos spirit which is characterized by stress--which often means spending a stupendous amount of time in traffic commuting from one point to another. I was irritated by the sheer amount of time Lagosians waste hassling in this glorified ghetto.
I have lived in Lagos all my life. I only recently moved to Ibadan and I can say the quality of my life has improved drastically, coupled with my orientation. The people here in Ibadan are more relaxed and family-oriented. I have been living in this city for the past one year and I have never been stuck in traffic for an hour, never.
My problem with Lagos isn't just traffic. There is also the case of too many people fighting for a tiny space. I almost had a panic attack while walking on the streets of lagos. There are just so many people--most suffering and smiling--pursuing the Lagos dream. It is very easy to liken this hellhole to paradise because of its supposed glamour and prestige, but there is little to nothing for the average Lagosian.
There is a saying that Lagos is a place where people make money and never leave with it. Most people spend their lifetime working without having anything tangible to show for it. I know people who have been in the same space doing the same thing for the last 15 years and nothing has changed for them. You know, time alludes to people consciously. Today you're young with prospects and in a twinkle of an eye all that vanishes. This is the epitome of the Lagos dream.
I do find it strange why everyone wants to be in Lagos. I understand Lagos is remotely beautiful and most of the important people in Nigeria are here, but you can make it elsewhere. Maybe this is coming from a place of privilege. I do not fully grasp the reality of the average Lagosian because I do not live off $50 monthly in one of the world's most expensive slums. I understand what Lagos means to the middle class, but it is too hefty a price to pay for luxury.
I don't need Lagos and Lagos doesn't need me. It's quite unfortunate that I might be relocating back to this dreaded place if my partner doesn't get a job offer here in Ibadan. A small price I would have to pay for love. Even at that, I will still be immune to the reality of working in Lagos.
I am sorry Lagosian for dragging your glorified dustbin of a city. Anyone who has lived outside this hellhole would share my sentiment. Lagos is a place to visit, not a place to live. If you think otherwise kindly make your argument in the comment section. Cheers!
