I am a strong believer in building not just skill but also character through dedication towards a path that is often filled with challenges. It takes a lot of courage and strength to go beyond the confines of one’s comfort into the unknown/uncomfortable.
One of the biggest misconceptions about success is that it is easy. Most people assume that if they show up every day things will go as planned but that is never the case. The reality is: you’re more prone to fail more times than you succeed.
It took me countless badly written articles to get to this point where I can string my thoughts together. I was not born a natural writer. In fact, my writing skill was reasonably poor in high school. I could not read or even write properly.
I remember being mocked in front of the class one day for not being able to read properly. Still today I get a lot of anxiety being in public places or being the center of attraction. Even with my history I probably would have never picked up my phone to start blogging.
I still have my challenges as a writer. For one, my proofreading skill isn’t where it should be, but I never gave up on my passion for writing. This is my safe space and I am willing to do whatever it takes to keep it even though it means failing repeatedly.
I am what you call persistent. I do not take no for an answer. When I want something I go at it with everything that is within me. I do not make excuses. It is either I achieve my goal or nothing. This level of doggedness has seen me through so many battles in life.
HOW DOES ONE STAY PERSISTENT?
First of all, you need to have clarity of purpose. Knowing what you want and why you want it. Most people are familiar with the former but not the latter. However, answering the ‘why’ question is important. It keeps you on course even when things aren’t going as planned.
Now you might be clueless in regards to the actions you need to take to better your life but having clarity will nudge you toward the right path. You start asking the right questions and reaching out to the right people.
Staying persistent is the only true way to achieve meaningful growth. I am disgusted by the way most people give up these days on life and everything. It is okay to be hurt, it is okay to feel defeated but carry on even with those negative emotions.
We do not understand how little of the big picture we see. I have seen this play several times in my life--when people stay on course they are rewarded in ways they may have never imagined. Stay on course.
I hope you found this useful in some way. I hope you continue to pursue that which gives your life purpose irrespective of the odds. Cheers!
