Criticizing destroys or builds

That palm tree is planted in the garden where the offices where I work are located, I put it in my WhatsApp status and received several messages, some thought I was on the beach, it seems ironic to me if it is a working day, others only made comments that were not productive, so I ignored it. What can affect a person if you are or not on the beach on a Thursday, for God's sake?

This reminded me of a movie called Blind Love where the character who was doing hypnosis said a phrase that I like very much "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" if you think about it, criticism depends on who listens to it, you can let it be constructive or destructive, absolutely there are always people who want to stop their mouths and others may not criticize you to destroy but to build, of course it is not what you say but how you say it that influences.

At that moment something very common in the workplace happened, a colleague arrived like a dragon, she was shooting fire from her pretty little mouth, we had to calm her down, you can not make decisions in moments of anger when she began to tell the events that had her so out of control, the boss criticized her for the bad writing of a paper, according to her, she always did it that way and he had never said anything, indeed there were some corrections to be made but something so silly that the pill for the headache was more expensive.

In this particular case I did not see any destructive criticism and so I let him know and I told him calm down, relax, let me correct it, after he calmed down I explained that there was nothing destructive in that correction that maybe he saw it that way because his mood is not at 💯% but that there is no reason to be upset.

After that episode everything happened of course the murmur and everyone giving their point of view was comiquisimo and of course I was not the exception hahaha, in the office you suffer but also enjoy hahaha, the theme of the day was the criticism and everyone present had their own anecdotes of their experiences regarding this issue that is quite common, it's amazing how humans can use our senses to our

Back home on the road I was thinking obviously there are people who criticize you with the firm purpose of hurting or hurting, but there is also the one who criticizes you to make you better, now who makes the difference when receiving a positive or negative criticism? It is our decision to take the good and discard the bad of all criticism, many times we get into a situation that does not take us anywhere and as it happened today in the office.

This situation reminded me of my ex-husband hahaha every time I told him things like that shirt does not match you immediately entered the spirit of chuky hahaha he always told me the same thing what you do is make me destructive criticism hahaha, we are definitely emotional beings, so I think the criticism affect you if you want and how you feel emotionally that day, if the boss makes the correction another day where she is in good spirits sure her reaction is different, are little things that happen.

Definitely if there are criticisms that hit you in the liver but it is inevitable while they are in this world.