The Silver Bloggers Chronicles #14: A heroine without a statue
A heroine without a statue
But there is someone who, without her or anyone knowing, has served as an inspiration for some fictional stories that I have created on this platform and about which I have never spoken directly, but in connection with this chronicle, I will try to make this post serve to bring her out of that space of invisibility in which many people find themselves who, because of the life they lead, because of the luck they have had, are anonymous to the world. The first way to bring her out of anonymity is to say her name, Dorys, and the second is to tell her story.
Mrs. Dorys is a woman who lives near my parents' house. I have known her since I was a child. Just by seeing her, I could tell the time without looking at the clock: it was 6 in the morning when she left for work and greeted anyone she met along the way, and it was 8 at night when she returned home with slumped shoulders and said good evening, despite the accumulated fatigue.
I will never forget, like in the '90s, when crime was rampant in the neighborhood where I lived, the figure of Mrs. Dorys seemed like a shadow behind her children so that they wouldn't be killed. She would run screaming, crying, begging the police for mercy, willing for any bullet to pierce her chest. Deep down, perhaps, that was what Mrs. Dorys was seeking—that a stray bullet would come and put an end to that life of deprivation and sadness.
However, she always remained standing, working. Any experience that Mrs. Dorys had gone through would have destroyed anyone, but not her: it was as if life had hit you so many times that eventually nothing hurts, that you become immune.
_Wake up, Mrs. Dorys, we've arrived - I said softly, and she thanked me with a smile.
Mrs. Dorys is alive, and despite her advanced age, she continues working, and despite all the tragedies and cruelties she has experienced, she smiles and wishes good morning and good night to everyone she encounters on her path, as if that were the only way not to be invisible to a society that does not build statues for women like Mrs. Dorys, because perhaps, like her, there are many women in my country.