There is one phase in our life which will shake us up to the core. This is a very intense phase of the life, and life altering one also. Possibly you will become very serious and also very spiritual in this phase. This is the phase when our life learning curve is the steepest and we gain lot of insights which will spiritually evolve us as a person. And once this phase is over, you will be a completely new person. A better one and a more carefree one, you will understand the depth of situations and at the same time you will be easy-going with it.
In my life this phase was long, stretching up to almost 15 years. Possibly because I was not learning what life wanted to teach me. Now I when I reflect back, I do realize I was in a loop with the same patterns repeating again and again. And then somewhere I could crack it and break free from this loop and with that the phase also got over. When it was over, I had some amazing new found confidence in me. I felt so much light in my mind. If I say the dark phase is over it does not mean that all my worries are over. The only difference I feel is my approach towards handling my problems. I do not get shaken up with it, and it's become much easier for me to let go. I do not like to be any more serious in life. This is what that tough phase has taught me.
A few days back I was talking to a friend of mine, and I saw her in the same place where I was some years back, and I kept telling her that she needs to release and let go off her past pain and she told me she cannot do that. At one point of time in my life, I also made similar statements but now I feel they were so much draining me out. Being stuck with those painful emotions and memories of the past was making my life miserable. How I wish we had some memory loss techniques of some of these painful events of life, because I have seen many people not being able to come out of this phase. For my own-self it took me so long to break-free from it.
This phase can be about anything, it can be related to health, relationships, career or finance. For me it was about almost everything mixed up. I had relationship issues, my career was not picking up, finances were always low, and while I did not have my own health issues but I was always around sick people and sometimes it was very heavy to deal with all of it. A lot of self-work I had to do to get myself out of all of this mess, in the process I had to let go and release many of my strong belief systems. I had to do a lot of forgiveness and also seek forgiveness. When I did all of that, I felt like I was freely flying in the sky. Every single day that I found painful started feeling like a blessing.
One thing I want to convey out of all of this, is, there is nothing that we cannot let go and forgive. Giving and seeking forgiveness is one of the most liberating feelings. Especially when you do it for someone you dislike the most. Trust me when you do that, you will not only forgive them but you will suddenly start seeing all the good in them.
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