Fear and Mistake

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In The Big Bang Theory Season 9 Finale, Sheldon has decided to contact Amy Farah Fowler to propose to her through a webcam but instead she broke up with him. Amy has been patient with him for a long period of time and can't stand the idea of their relationship was not progressing to any kind of intimacy (except for awkward lips kissing). Mind you, Sheldon hasn't yet stated his notion to propose to Amy when she decided to break up with him so he just listen to her and after the webcam session, he took the ring from his drawer and said " What should I do with this".

This particular situation shows that giving up might be the biggest mistake that you can do in your life. Sometimes we are frustrated with the effort we have been putting on without getting much result and we've decided to give up but sometimes good progress and success come in an unexpected time. Regret is something that you don't want to feel but it's actually a double edge sword kind a situation. We've been given 2 possibilities and we have to decide which pathway we're going to take. It looks easy, but if you add in any consequences that can be correlate with the type of decision we're going to make, this thing is complicated. If we move on, we might not know if 5 minutes after that we're going to get a really good result and if if we want to stay, we might be wasting our time working on something that is not beneficial in terms of time and money.

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How we are going to take this kind of decision? We often fear something that we could not understand that's why we have to fortify ourselves with knowledge. Knowledge can be found in many state; science, math and even experience. It is important for us to analyze the situation first by listing out the good and bad consequences and discuss with a more experience individual. Nowadays, it has been made easy by forums, social media and vlog that has been set up with a purpose to help people who are struggling with a specific kind of situation. Don't let your fear take command of you, identify your fear and alleviate it by finding a solution from anything that we can get it from; internet, teacher etc. You are not alone.

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