Someone once said a side effect of love ironically is HATE.. But truth be told how do we discern LOVE and INFATUATION?
A school of thought might believe its all about self love before you can love another then i ask how do we discern being self centered from being selfless? With so much pain and hurt that comes with relationships, dashed hopes and disappointments we can't deny the compassion, joy,pleasure and the feeling of being complete that comes with genuine love.
The realist that i am believes and says that relationships are overrated but the optimist within knows that one day i would eat my words....smiling offcourse.
