We are ready or not, death comes for all of us. We are all aware that living in this world is not forever. We may think we are not afraid to die but undoubtedly we don't want to leave. Not experiencing how we suffer and survive in our own life. We still want to cling to that small percentage just to make sure we can have plenty of time staying in this world. But in reality, we never know how long we're going to stay in this world. Of course, we are desperate to live much longer. Tears never stop falling when we realize our time is almost over. No matter how tight the grip is in holding on to our life. If it's over, it will be over and that's the truth in life.
"Everything will be alright, no, everything's gonna be alright." Those are the words most people say when they think they can't make it anymore. If this lets it out in their mouth, it just means they accepted it already that dying is decided. For some reason, we think how pathetic those who died young were. They can't any longer enjoy life, which is a waste not to enjoy it. Especially, those who left the world at a younger age but actually the ones we should pity the most are those being left behind.
I don't know for sure what happens when someone dies. I'm just assuming they will fade into this world together with consciousness and forget everything. However, those who are left behind suffer the most emotionally. It will take a longer time before forgetting someone. Some experience unstable emotions that may end up unhealthy for them. The tears will not ease the pain right away no matter how many liters you cried. It's normal since we have a type of feeling to be attached to someone and that is called love. It's not easy but there's no way can bring back someone's life just because we are desperate.
I remember the time when my father died and I was a teenager back then. We were not that close but when he left us I suddenly realized how he was to me. He was the one to support me, to encourage me, and to love me but he did it silently. I just remember but there's no use of it because he was gone and wouldn't hear me crying so hard for him. It took longer before the pain faded. It depends on someone I guess in forgetting someone. The pain left me but the existence of him in my memories misses him sometimes.
It's not easy when someone who is very dear to us leaves. Although, it's harder seeing them suffer from pain and enduring just to survive life. It's not easy to choose, it's our nature as human beings to let the typhoon pass instead of worrying about it. Yes, the time comes that we will accept the pain later rather than suffering.
There's no guarantee that we will see our loved ones once again. It's just a phrase to let someone know not to worry about whatever might happen. Who knows if there is another life or not but the phrase will help someone feel a little bit better despite the grief they are feeling. It's like an excuse for someone to accept that this is the reality. Life is like from the first place right after we learned about life. It's just not easy but once again, leaving in this world is inevitable.
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Paul is the name but prefers to be called mrnightmare that feels like living in the dream. A country boy and a dreamboy (dreamer) who likes to stay in a small village even though it means abandoning the future to become a seaman. The passion is writing but not sailing in the vast ocean. Don't wonder if the face will not be shown, this is better where the words can flow smoothly. Come, have fun with me talking about life events and random activities. It's fun to learn about life, don't hesitate, let's figure it out as we continue enjoying staying in this world.
