Love is selfish but love is responsible. When the time is right, there's a feeling that is perhaps the same as the word, “the calling.” Love won't let loved ones feel alone, instead careful to make sure one another is supported emotionally. Not in a married life even though you have someone you love so much feels lacking.
So marriage basically is to have the sacred matrimony of a ceremony from God above. If a person is God fearing, a blessing from God should be considered before deciding on living together and creating a family. However being said aside, love is always the reason that two people would decide to be married. Then commitment and assurance of a faithful lover come next.
Although, don't misunderstand that it's not owning one but living together to share emotional support and to love truly. Even if it's official that one another is tied together. There's no law or right that the other one is the boss to decide for the couple. The treatment of one another is mutual of course. There might be restrictions but not to the point where one would feel like being suffocated. Love is selfish maybe but love is understanding.
From the groom;
Q: Why did you decide to get married?
I decided to get married for many reasons but one thing is for sure that I'm into a matrimonial ceremony to receive the blessings from above and from our parents, so do with our union will be holy and official.
Q:Why did you decide to have a wife?
Having a partner in life and together building a God fearing family in harmonious living is what I've prayed for as individuals coming from a religious family and parents.
Q: Just a short story, how did the relationship start?
We started in a BEC gathering and activities as active members, and decided to travel to Manila for job opportunities. With the help of constant communication through text and call we decided to be lovers since both of us have the same purpose of feelings... After 2 years of a long-distance relationship. We decided to live together and our small family started. We longed for much time to be in holy matrimony but we failed to grab the opportunities as we were weakened by varied challenges in life as lived as a couple. This time of union was unexpected and unprepared. As it is said "When the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen"...All these happenings are truly God's Plan in His right time.
Obviously, love God found the two Hearts or maybe destined to be a couple in the future. They fought and endured the challenges in life because they were sure that love for both of them was there. Though they should be the ones who would work for their love to stay strong and they did.
The wedding might have taken longer than expected. The important thing is that the two of them made sure to make it happen. Through the family support, relatives, and friends; Nonito and Darlene became a couple by God's grace. Together, they're ready to face the new life of being together as a husband and wife.
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Paul was born in Macrohon, Southern Leyte but currently living in Cahayag, San Francisco Southern Leyte. He graduated the course of a BS Mar-E or Bachelor of Science in Marine Engineering in 2019. Although writing is his passion so instead of sailing he decided on writing.
He writes occasionally about random stuff he would see in the outside world. He loves to express what he feels through writing because he's not good at speaking personally.
He also writes fictional stories and emotions because he thinks life matters. He is hoping that his words could reach someone who might be feeling down.
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