Saludos queridos amigos, algunas personas piensan que el amor es solo para los j贸venes, que actuar con rebeld铆a, solo es producto de cuando se est谩 comenzando a descubrir emociones, sensaciones y sentimientos, o estos actos que somos capaces de manifestar son producto de la pubertad o la inmadurez que estamos experimentando.
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Pero 驴qu茅 pasa? cuando ya esta etapa de la pubertad e inmadurez ha pasado, o 驴cu谩ndo el amor lo descubrimos en nuestra tercera edad? 驴Actuaremos igual de rebelde e irresponsable que cuando 茅ramos unos adolescentes? Esta es una gran pregunta de reflexi贸n.
Cuando comenzamos a actuar con responsabilidad, ya esas locuras que hicimos o la rebeld铆a que tuvimos nos parecen absurdas y a veces hasta innecesarias, y pensamos que si volvi茅ramos a vivir estas cosas las enfrentar铆amos de diferente manera, comenzamos a dar consejos a los m谩s j贸venes advirti茅ndoles de los peligros y de las cosas que no son buenas para sus vidas, es decir maduramos.
El amor en la tercera edad o a cualquier edad, te produce una energ铆a muy grande que te hace sentir que mereces vivir esa experiencia, y que por nada del mundo te lo perder铆as, cuando se es adulto muy adulto se comienza a pensar en todo lo que quisiste vivir de joven y que por cualquier raz贸n no pudiste hacerlo, y piensas ya estoy terminando mi vida, 驴Me ir茅 de ella sin vivir el amor?
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Es all铆 el peligro, porque si se帽ores, a la tercera edad vuelve la rebeld铆a, quiz谩s no la inmadurez, pero si los pensamientos que ya eres tan grande que mereces vivir lo que quieras sin importar nada, ni siquiera los valores y principios que tanto te esforzaste por ense帽ar, sin importar opiniones, comienzas a querer arreglarte y verte m谩s bonita que de costumbre, y ciertamente es as铆 mereces vivir lo que quieras y te haga feliz, pero con conciencia, a diferencia de la juventud la madurez nos permite vivir lo que queremos pero con responsabilidad.
Conoc铆 una vez, una mujer que contaba m谩s de 60 a帽os, ella nunca hab铆a sido atendida por un hombre con detalles y cortes铆as, su vida hab铆a sido dura y de sacrificios, siempre pensaba en los dem谩s antes que en ella, le importaba mucho el qu茅 dir谩n de las personas, esto no le permiti贸 nunca vivir lo que ella quer铆a sino lo que la sociedad establec铆a, hasta que llego ese d铆a en que apareci贸 ese hombre que la trato con cari帽o y le mostr贸 inter茅s, llen谩ndola de atenciones y cortes铆as, y ella sin darse cuenta se enamor贸, sin querer admitirlo comenz贸 a hacer cosas que antes no se atrev铆a a hacer, y a disfrutar de cosas que antes no disfrutaba.
En definitiva, el amor nos vuelve locos y atrevidos a cualquier edad, sin importar sexo, o religi贸n y menos diferencia de edades.
Tambi茅n tuve un amigo que se cas贸 muy joven, a los 18 a帽os, pero su matrimonio m谩s que por amor fue por necesidad, ojo esto me lo cont贸 el, su madre no le permit铆a tener los desahogos propios de la pubertad con cualquier mujer, y para hacerlo deb铆a casarse y asumir su responsabilidad, todo esto por el miedo de que este chico pudiera andar dejando hijos regados por ah铆, esto lo llevo a vivir una vida sin amor y pasi贸n y al final despu茅s de una vida de matrimonio sostenido por conveniencias, 茅l se enamor贸 perdidamente de alguien que le removi贸 cada fibra de sus sentimientos y emociones, llev谩ndolo a dejar todo lo que ten铆a, una familia, una estabilidad econ贸mica por vivir eso que tantas emociones le produc铆a., conversando con 茅l un d铆a me dijo que no iba a permitirse seguir muerto en vida. 隆Fuertes palabras!
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En fin, queridos amigos, soy defensora del amor y de no permitir que la vida pase sin vivirlo, 30 a帽os atr谩s dir铆a que hay que vivir el amor no importa quien se oponga y que diga la gente, ya he madurado y pienso que, si debemos vivir el amor, pero desde la responsabilidad, sin hacernos da帽o y sin hacerle da帽o a nadie, debemos amarnos nosotros primero antes de amar a alguien m谩s.
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Greetings dear friends, some people think that love is only for young people, that acting rebelliously, is only a product of when you are beginning to discover emotions, sensations and feelings, or these acts that we are able to manifest are a product of puberty or immaturity that we are experiencing.
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But what happens when this stage of puberty and immaturity has passed, or when we discover love in our old age? Will we act just as rebellious and irresponsible as we did when we were teenagers? This is a great question to ponder.
When we begin to act responsibly, and those crazy things we did or the rebelliousness we had seem absurd and sometimes even unnecessary, and we think that if we lived these things again we would face them differently, we begin to give advice to younger people warning them of the dangers and things that are not good for their lives, that is to say, we mature.
Love in the third age or at any age, produces a very great energy that makes you feel that you deserve to live that experience, and that for nothing in the world you would miss it, when you are a very adult adult you start to think about everything you wanted to live when you were young and for whatever reason you could not do it, and you think I'm already ending my life, will I leave it without living love?
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It is there the danger, because yes gentlemen, at old age the rebelliousness returns, maybe not the immaturity, but if the thoughts that you are already so big that you deserve to live what you want no matter what, not even the values and principles that you tried so hard to teach, regardless of opinions, you start wanting to dress up and look prettier than usual, and certainly it is so you deserve to live what you want and make you happy, but with awareness, unlike youth maturity allows us to live what we want but with responsibility.
I once knew a woman who was more than 60 years old, she had never been attended by a man with details and courtesies, her life had been hard and of sacrifices, she always thought of others before herself, she cared a lot about what people would say, this never allowed her to live what she wanted but what society established, Until that day came when that man appeared who treated her with affection and showed interest, filling her with attentions and courtesies, and without realizing it she fell in love, without wanting to admit it, she began to do things she did not dare to do before, and to enjoy things she did not enjoy before.
In short, love makes us crazy and daring at any age, regardless of sex, or religion and less age difference.
I also had a friend who married very young, at 18 years old, but his marriage more than for love was out of necessity, eye this was told to me by him, his mother did not allow him to have the proper unburdening of puberty with any woman, and to do so he had to marry and take responsibility, all this for fear that this guy could go around leaving children scattered around, This led him to live a life without love and passion and in the end after a life of marriage sustained by convenience, he fell madly in love with someone who moved every fiber of his feelings and emotions, leading him to leave everything he had, a family, an economic stability to live that which produced so many emotions. , Talking with him one day he told me that he was not going to allow himself to remain dead in life. Strong words!
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Anyway, dear friends, I am an advocate of love and not allowing life to pass without living it, 30 years ago I would say that we must live love no matter who opposes it and what people say, I have matured and I think that, yes we must live love, but from responsibility, without hurting ourselves and without hurting anyone, we must love ourselves first before loving someone else.
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