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Whenever I'm reading academic texts, I remember my professor who said that reading is like whale watching. You read, turning the pages, without worrying about understanding everything. Suddenly, a whale appears, you understand, take notes, enjoy. And then you spend a few more hours watching the sea.
My brother offered me a beginner's Muay Thai lesson, and to avoid saying I was lazy or boring, I pretended to be a pacifist. He said that only those capable of inflicting harm but choosing not to can be pacifists. Not knowing how to strike is simply being harmless.
Your excessive planning is just procrastination disguised as organization. Read and reread until you understand.
My psychologist said: "If you take everything personally, you will live offended most of your life. Remember that people don't do things to you; people do things, and you decide whether they affect you or not."
Meet people who connect with you. Because otherwise, you end up feeling inadequate, ashamed of your tastes, beliefs, and being who you are. I am who I am. It seems obvious, but it takes us a while to learn this. Not knowing this hinders your vision and purpose.
You can be a good person and still say no, swear, freak out, set limits, tell people to get lost, and take actions that favor yourself. Being good doesn't mean being a wimp.
I read it and found it coherent: the process is slow, but giving up doesn't speed it up. Focus.
Humanize people! Remember that no matter how much you like someone, they will make mistakes, get things right, disappoint you, make you laugh, make you cry, and have mixed feelings. Believing that someone is always right, "never wrong" takes away that person's humanity! We make mistakes! All of us!
The cure for self-sabotage is to anchor yourself in the universal truth that you are worth it. You are worth the effort. You are worth the hardship, worth the time, worth the consideration. There is never a point in your life, in time itself, that you are not worth it.
I guess you must wonder why i give all of these self care advises, some of them are good ones, my intent is that if you are able to follow them you will be happy, not all tips from this blog are doable or sane but some are, and i gotta be honest, sometimes i just want to make you laugh at them. Bringing joy to other people will always be my favorite advice. It warms the heart.
