I don't understand, who cheats in something? People or fate?, My Actifit Report Card: June 3 2026

Assalamu Alaikum. I hope you are all well. Today I am writing about a topic that may have come to our minds at some point in our lives. The question is very small, but when we try to find the answer to it, our mind feels heavy - who cheats in something? People or fate?

To be honest, I have not yet fully found the answer to this question. Many events in life have made me think again and again. Sometimes I feel like people have cheated me, and sometimes I feel like fate has not treated me well.

When we trust someone, we actually give them a place in our hearts. When that person breaks our trust, the pain is not just because of an incident. The pain is because we trusted them. I have met some people in my life for whom I have done a lot, but they were not there for me when the time came. Then I felt that people really change.

But is it all the fault of humans? This question also comes to mind sometimes. Because it has happened, not because of any human, but still I have lost a lot. I had many dreams, many plans, but even after everything was right, some things were lost. Then I felt that maybe fate had something else written for me.

At one time, I was very disappointed about all this. I used to wonder, why does this happen to me? But now I try to think a little differently. Now I feel that every incident in life may bring some kind of lesson. The person who caused me pain taught me to recognize people. And the failure that came taught me to be more patient.

When I look back today, I see that the most difficult times in life changed me the most. If I had not experienced those hardships, I might not have been so strong. So now I don't want to blame anyone completely.

People may cheat, fate may test. But in the end, our lives are built on those experiences. So even today, if someone asks me, “Who is cheating? Man or fate?”— I might say, I don’t know the answer yet. But I do know that every hardship has taught me something new, and those lessons are the greatest wealth in my life.

Sometimes it is necessary to get lost, so that we can find our true path. And maybe that is where the greatest truth in life lies.